The rise of dating apps like Tinder has revolutionized modern relationships, but with that rise comes the risk of scams. Trevor Cooke, a privacy expert at EarthWeb, shares five red flags that could indicate your Tinder match isn’t who they claim to be. Before swiping right, pay attention to these warning signs:
1. They Refuse to Share Basic Information
While it’s normal not to divulge too much personal information online, refusing to answer simple questions like their age or where they live is a red flag. According to Trevor, “If the person consistently avoids these questions, it could mean they’re hiding something, like being a catfish.” You should know at least a few details about someone before agreeing to meet them.
2. They Fish for Your Personal Information
If your match is asking inappropriate personal questions too soon or bombarding you with excessive messages, it’s a major warning sign. Scammers often try to build an emotional connection quickly to manipulate you into sharing sensitive data or even money. Trevor advises setting clear boundaries and trusting your instincts. “If you feel uncomfortable, unmatch and move on.”
3. They Avoid Answering Personal Questions
A lack of openness is another sign that something may be off. If they refuse to share their intentions or offer vague answers about their personal life, they may have no interest in real dating and could be a scammer looking to keep the conversation online. Trevor emphasizes, “If someone won’t give you a straight answer, the first date may never happen, and they could be after more than just a connection.”
4. They’re Too Eager to Meet Up
While some excitement to meet in person is natural, if your match is pressuring you for a date after only a few exchanges, be wary. This urgency can indicate nefarious intentions, such as theft or worse. Trevor advises, “If their focus is only on meeting up, unmatch and be cautious. Always meet in a public place for your safety.”
5. Their Photos Seem Too Good to Be True
If your match’s profile is filled with lavish, unrealistic photos—like yachts, private jets, or flashy displays of wealth—it could be a scam. Scammers use such images to lure in victims. Trevor suggests, “Ask them for a specific photo doing something mundane. If they can’t provide it, they’re likely not who they say they are.”
By being mindful of these red flags, you can protect yourself from potential scams and make safer dating choices on apps like Tinder.
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