Gift-giving for weddings seems straightforward, especially with registries guiding the way. But some guests insist on going off-script—sometimes delighting and other times bewildering newlyweds. Wedding expert Claudia Postigo from The Planner Co. shares some memorable examples of strange wedding gifts and advice on navigating this tricky terrain.
Singing Holiday Decorations
One Reddit user shared, “We received a storage tub full of novelty singing animals for every holiday you can imagine—like a frog with a banjo singing ‘God Bless the USA.’” Claudia advises, “Holiday-themed gifts only make sense if they align with the couple’s preferences or the wedding’s timing. Otherwise, they’re better avoided.”
Handmade Ouija Board
Another couple received a cursed Ouija board handmade by a witch. Surprisingly, they loved it. “While unusual, the gift was meaningful because it suited the couple’s quirky style,” Claudia notes. “This underscores that knowing the couple’s tastes can make even odd gifts successful.”
Racially Insensitive Blanket
A personalized blanket featuring a white couple was gifted to a Black bride and her husband. “If a gift symbolizes the couple, ensure it reflects their cultural and physical identities,” Claudia emphasizes. “Thoughtfulness is key in avoiding these awkward missteps.”
Giant Ceramic Cow
At one wedding, a guest gifted a massive ceramic cow. The recipient joked, “It fit none of our cultural or personal expectations.” Claudia warns, “Decor is highly personal. Stick to the registry unless you’re absolutely certain it matches the couple’s style.”
Memory Box
A heartfelt success story featured a hand-carved box for storing mementos. “It wasn’t on the registry, but it worked because it was simple, thoughtful, and universal,” says Claudia.
The lesson? Stray from the registry only if your gift is thoughtful, relevant, and personal in a meaningful way. Otherwise, that ceramic cow might haunt their home forever!